How I started in the SW industry

In early 2020, the world was in turmoil, and like many others, I found myself reflecting on my life and the choices I had made. I lost my job in May 2020 after the owner’s partner discovered my OnlyFans and weaponized it against me. I didn’t deserve to be penalized for being confident in my body and sexuality, but I was.

I also started reflecting on how, for years, I had been sharing thirst traps on Instagram and Snapchat, enjoying the attention but feeling increasingly frustrated that I was giving too much away for free—especially to men who felt entitled to my body without offering anything in return. These men were receiving nudes, taking screenshots of my sexier photos without my consent, and I wasn’t seeing a dime. Why should others benefit from my body while I was left empty-handed?

At the same time, I was dealing with significant debt, largely due to financially supporting an ex-partner. Despite having what was considered a good job by Winnipeg standards, I wasn’t getting ahead. But then, with OnlyFans having come into my life, everything changed. Being home during the pandemic allowed me to focus on growing my subscriber base, and soon, I was debt-free. The freedom I gained from this work allowed me to view myself and my body in a new light. I was confident, beautiful, and making money on my terms.

That’s when I made the decision to do OnlyFans full time- I was respected on there in a way I hadn’t been at my last job, or by the general public. It was empowering to finally take control and start profiting from the content I was already creating. This decision wasn’t just about money—it was about reclaiming my power and making sure that if anyone was going to benefit entirely from my body, it would be me. I deserved to make a living off of this.

A few short months later, as luck would have it, also I received a job offer in Toronto.

With everything that had happened, I knew I had to take the job and leave Winnipeg. I had two weeks to move- I was both nervous and excited, eager to be in the city, wondering where life would take me… but knowing I deserved to be where I was treated better and not less than simply for owning my sexuality.

So in September of 2020, I made the big move to Toronto that changed my life.

Toronto’s energy was contagious—vibrant and lively, so different from Winnipeg. While I initially came for the job, I also saw this as an opportunity to build on my online success. If OnlyFans was going so well, what other opportunities could I explore?

That’s when I began considering in-person work. It started with joining Seeking Arrangements, a platform for sugar babies and sugar daddies, but I quickly realized that wasn’t the right fit for me. Men were paying me only $500 for an entire evening. I deserved better than that. Around this time, I started following other sex workers on Twitter and learning more about full-service sex work (FSSW). I was curious, and their advice and stories helped me see that escorting could offer me far more freedom and value than I was finding on Seeking.

I even considered working with an agency and spoke with the owner of one. While helpful, the rates they offered were too low for me personally, so I stuck with being independent. It was the perfect fit—much better than wasting time with Seeking clients and far more rewarding than an agency could have been.

Before long, I was regularly booking $500 an hour meets with clients who adored me. I felt like a goddess. I began advertising myself as a curvy, brunette BBW, and men loved my busty and voluptuous figure. I knew my worth, and I set the price.

The transition to escorting showed me that there was a real demand for what I had to offer—both online and in person. Although I had started using Twitter primarily to promote my OnlyFans, I found myself increasingly drawn to FSSW and started embracing it more and more.

Balancing escorting with my office job became harder over time. The stress of management, the monotony of the work, and the feeling that I wasn’t valued began to weigh on me. By June 2022, I knew something had to change. My mental health was suffering, and staying in that toxic work environment was slowly destroying me. The decision to leave wasn’t easy. Leaving behind the stability of a regular paycheck for the volatility of full-time sex work was scary, but staying in that job wasn’t worth the toll it was taking on me.

So, I left. I walked away from my office job and went full-time into FSSW. It was terrifying, but also one of the most liberating decisions I’ve ever made. For the first time, I was in full control of my life and my future. I was my own boss, and I was thriving.

As a BBW, I initially worried that my body type would limit my success. But to my surprise and delight, my curves were celebrated. My clients loved my full figure. I realized that being a BBW was not a hindrance but a strength. I wasn’t just fitting into the market—I was dominating it. There was a huge demand for BBWs, and my body was exactly what clients wanted.

Now, years later, I can confidently say that leaving my 9-5 job and going full-time with escorting was the right move. I’ve cornered the market as Toronto’s top BBW, even Canada’s, and although the journey has had its challenges, I wouldn’t trade it for anything. Escorting has given me financial independence, a fat wallet, and the freedom to live life on my terms.